"Let us be in a position so we are able to not only feed ourselves through the home production and storage, but others as well." (President Ezra Taft Benson)
We got notified our power bill will double next month. I am sure many were notified as well. News says the grocery prices will go up August 1st. I sure do not see this getting better any time soon.
Also, Christmas is on the horizon.
Are you feeling stress just reading this far??
These are stressful times so I suggest finding joy and peace. Stress does bad things to our health and we don't want that to compound our troubles.
Sometimes we cannot control things so take a step back. We need to concentrate on what we can do.
Heavenly Father wants us to find joy. Admittedly it is very hard right now with all that is going on.
Try to think back to happier times. Even though times are tight, try to find happy things you can do with your family for no cost. I remember when our kids were little, we could not afford a sitter or a meal out. When I put the kids to bed, I made a candlelight dinner. I didn't fix anything fancy, it was what we normally had, but a quiet candle light dinner for two was a joy.
One time for a family night activity I set up a mini carnival with games and prizes which basically was prizes for all .
It might take all we have to get through these hard times - more work, more effort using what we have.
We might have a not fantastic meal but pop it up with funky names, make it special.
Have a movie and popcorn night - a rerun roundup sort of thing. Don't ask what they will want to watch - no one will agree. Instead, you know what are the favorites that all like. Cut pieces of paper, write down those and put in a bowl. Let dad draw out a paper and that way it is a show everyone likes and no bickering.
It will be hardest on you but you can push through the tired to make the ordinary special.
One night after an ordinary meal, have cookie dough already made up ahead and everyone make cookies together, but do it with someone in mind who could use love of a plate of cookies. Plus, eat as they make - what fun! Then deliver the plate of cookies.
https://healthyfamilyandme.com/free-activities-for-families/ - some great ideas.
https://www.lovetoknow.com/parenting/parenthood/free-fun-family-activities - for all seasons.
https://healthyhappyimpactful.com/family-challenges/ - some fun ideas.
If we are stressing, our family picks up on that.
When we had stressful times, I would make this chocolate cake. I keep the ingredients in storage at all times. Our kids never knew we were stressed, they just knew things were okay and we had chocolate cake.
How many different kinds of cookies can you make? One of our daughters brought home a friend. I always had cookies freshly made for after school. After several times of her little friend coming this little girl said to me, how is it you know how to make so many kinds of cookies? Bless her heart.
Here is one of our favorites few people probably have heard of....
Fruit Cocktail Cookies
1 c. Shortening
1 c. Brown sugar
1 c. Regular Sugar
3 eggs
1 c. Raisins
3 c. Drained fruit cocktail
1 c. Chopped nuts
1 tsp. Vanilla
1 tsp. Baking soda
1 tsp. Ground cloves
1/2 tsp. Salt
1 tsp. Baking powder
4 c. Flour
1 tsp. Cinnamon
Cream first three ingredients together, then add eggs and vanilla, mix and add dry ingredients, mix and add fruits and nuts. This is not a real stiff dough just so you know.
Drop and bake 10-12 minutes in a 375 degree oven.
This is a soft cookie, cake like.
Frost cookies while warm.
Frosting
Melt one stick of butter then add two tbsp water and 1/2 tsp. vanilla. Mix and add powdered sugar till frosting consistency but don't make it too thick, you want to spread it. The hot cookies melt it a bit to make it drip down sides. As they cool, the frosting sets but you do not have to wait to eat them cool, they are great either way.
You will love these as much as we do. I store them in airtight container.
Lets face it, this is the best way to eat fruit cocktail after all.
Remember, we all are having hard times so let's cheer up the sad. Do kindnesses wherever and whenever we can. Don't judge others, just be helpful. By doing so, you too will be lifted.
We have all had hard times, granted not as widespread but we know what to do. We can do this! Go back to basics. We will be working with less but we will make it fun for our families.
Missy says be sure to rest during hard times.
Tippy Longstockings says yes to rest and she is thinking of fun things to do as well. She wants you to know you can do this - we are all proud of you!